3 Tips When Deciding What to Wear for Family Photos

As a family photographer, one of the most common questions I'm asked is, "What should we wear for our family photos?" It's a great question, and it's one I love to answer because it gives me a chance to dive into one one important aspect of documentary photography: showing up authentically for your session. As a documentary photographer, my primary concern isn't just about creating beautiful images; it's about ensuring that you and your family story are documented. It’s about looking back on the photos in 20 years and having those photos feel like home. And believe it or not, what you wear plays a huge role in that. When you feel comfortable in your clothes, it shines through in your photos. And when you uncomfortable, it also shows up. So, let's dive into some tips to help you decide what to wear for your family photos.

Tip #1: Coordinate Over Matching

Gone are the days when family photos meant everyone wearing the exact same color shirt and jeans. Instead, think coordination, not matching. Coordinating allows each family member to express their individuality while still maintaining a cohesive look that brings the group together. Embrace different patterns and textures.

Consider selecting a color palette as a starting point. This doesn't mean you need to restrict yourselves to two or three colors, but having a palette in mind can help guide your choices and ensure everyone looks harmonious together, while still embracing lots of individual self - expression.

But here's the key: allow for personal expression within that palette. If your daughter loves dresses, find one that fits the color scheme. If your son is all about comfort, look for a stylish yet cozy top that works within the palette. This way, everyone feels good about what they're wearing, which is essential for authentic photos. And remember, you don't always have to buy new outfits. Start by seeing what you already have in your closets and then supplement if needed. Start with your kiddos favorite pieces, so that we document that part of their childhood.

Tip #2: Use a Color Generator Website for Inspo

When it comes to deciding on a color palette, it can be overwhelming to know where to start. That's where a color generator websites can be handy. I personally recommend using Coolors.co to my clients. It's user-friendly and provides endless possibilities of color combinations at the click of a button.

Start by selecting one color you absolutely love or that you know looks great on you (you can lock this one color on the website). Then, use the website to generate complementary or analogous color schemes around that initial choice. This can help ensure that the colors you pick will work well together and look balanced in photographs. Plus, it's a fun way to involve the whole family in the decision-making process. Have your kids or partner click around and see which palettes they're drawn to. It's a great way to ensure everyone's preferences are considered.

Tip #3: Feeling Good Is Most Important

The most important thing to remember is that you need to feel good in your clothes. If you're uncomfortable or self-conscious, it will show in your photos. Use layers. Accessorize. Have fun with it.

Layers are especially great because they let you play around with different textures, adding depth to the images. A chunky knit cardigan over a dress, a blazer thrown over a casual tee, or scarves and hats can all add a pop of color and personality to your outfits. Plus, they have the practical benefit of allowing you to adapt to different temperatures, which is especially useful for outdoor sessions.

And don't forget, layers aren't just for the colder months. Light, airy layers can work wonders in the summer too, like a linen shirt over a tank top or a light scarf to add a splash of color. The key is to choose items that you feel comfortable and confident in, that allow you to move freely and be yourself.

Deciding what to wear for your family photos doesn't have to be a stressful ordeal. Set yourself up for a photo session where everyone can relax, have fun, and be themselves. And at the end of the day, those are the moments that make for the most memorable and genuine family photos.